Trailblazing The Path For Women’s Rights

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Many young women do not know the advances that have been made in the last 40 years by some courageous Trailblazers! In one year, I had the opportunity to meet three women who helped change the course of our history in the United States and several international organizations around the globe.

Just a few years ago I was the director of membership for the Los Angeles Rotary Club and in 2009  they were celebrating 100 years as a club. They are also known as LA5, they were the fifth Rotary club in the world. From this one club in Los Angeles many Rotary clubs started across California. 2009 was a life changing year for me.

LA5 chose Justice Sandra Day O’Connor as their  Person of the Century.  For this spectacular event clubs from across California were invited and  of course the special club to be invited was Durate Rotary Club, the club which challenged Rotary International by allowing three women to join their club.

At that time in the 1970′s Rotary was an all male organization, and the women had a separate organization that they could belong to, but it was like an auxiliary. Rotary International acted swiftly by telling the club they could not have women as members and they could not be part of Rotary International if they continued to have the three members.   The entire history of the case can be found here: http://www.rotaryfirst100.org/women/issues-legal/duarte/index.htm

The club said they were going to keep the members and sued Rotary International to keep their members.  They took the case all the way to the Supreme Court for a decision.

Helen Blanchard

Helen “Homer” Blanchard

Now in a little Toastmasters club on a Navy base in San Diego, a young woman was joining Toastmasters, which was also a male only organization. She worked for the Navy and the men in the club wanted her to join. They first tried with initials, but Toastmasters sent it back and said they had to have a full name.

Helen Blanchard, became “Homer” and the application went in and Toastmasters International was none the wiser. She was the first woman member of Toastmasters in the mid-70′s and yet no one really knew.

Back to the Rotary Case,  a Judicial precedent was set in 1987, when all nine Justices with one abstaining, the first woman justice, Sandra Day O’Conner, due to the fact that her husband was a Rotarian in Phoenix, sat on the sidelines on this case, decided against Rotary International and said they must admit women.

The doors of organizations were now open to women, all male clubs including Toastmasters International now had to admit women. Male private clubs, now had to allow women as members, and “Homer” Helen Blanchard quickly changed her name on her application and was the first Official Woman in Toastmasters International.  Helen wrote her story and it can be found on her website: www.helenblanchard.com

Moving up to 2009, the LA5 100 year party for Justice Sandra Day O’Conner, we had worked for over a year for this special day, over 400 people from across Los Angeles elite and Southern California came to meet this famous woman.  The first woman president of the Durate Rotary club, Sylvia Whitlock, came to meet Justice Sandra Day O’Conner. Madam Justice was a trail blazer as the first female Supreme Court Justice. She grew up on a ranch in Arizona and came from humble beginnings. When she told of the decision against Rotary that day, our room was filled with powerful women from throughout California, my only regret was that Helen Blanchard could not be there to meet one of the women who sat on the court that helped open the door for her and so many of us.

In November 2009, I had our District 52 Conference for Toastmasters International, which includes Los Angeles, and I invited Helen “Homer” Blanchard to be our featured speaker for the Conference. Helen had just published her book about her life  and becoming the first woman in Toastmasters. She also became the first woman International President.  That’s right she rose to the top of the international organization.

It is important to know the history of where we have come from, because we are losing Helen “Homer” Blanchard as I write this, her hours on this earth are short. Her impact however has been huge and I already miss one of my trail blazers who helped open the door to allow me to join Toastmasters and to the women who joined the Duarte Rotary Club who pushed to the Supreme Court to pave the way for more of us to join Rotary, Lions, Kiwanis and many more organizations that had been closed to women.

So long my friend, Helen, you brought us your charm, and your courage in adversity, you showed us that if you have a desire to go to the top, you can achieve. You battled the male chauvinism that existed in the organization when you joined and your strength and intelligence showed all of them that looking at skill and  the growth of the organization is what counts. I will miss your jokes and your smile, but most of all I will miss your encouragement.

 

Ninth Circuit Affirms Right of Disabled American To Sue United Airlines For Negligence

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English: The Richard H. Chambers U.S. Court of Appeals Building, U.S. Court of Appeals for the Ninth Circuit, Pasadena, California. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

 

 

PRESS RELEASE

 

For Immediate Release

 

 

 

March 12, 2013

 

 

 

Ninth Circuit Affirms Right of Disabled American to Sue United Airlines for Negligence

 

 

 

San Francisco, CA — In an important, published opinion, the Ninth Circuit reinstated Michelle Gilstrap’s case against United Airlines for failing to accommodate her disabilities as required by the Air Carrier Access Act (ACAA). In a case of first impression, the Court agreed with Ms. Gilstrap that disabled Americans can bring state law based negligence claims against airlines, so long as the standard of care with which the carriers must comply is the federal ACAA. The ACAA includes a set of rules establishing how the airlines must accommodate disabled passengers. Michelle Gilstrap is a disabled American who traveled on United Airlines in August 2008. During this trip Michelle Gilstrap alleges that United Air Lines failed to comply with the standards set forth in the ACAA, by failing to provide a wheel chair and other assistance required by the ACAA — by requiring proper assistance in transporting disabled passengers around the airport and between flights.

 

 

 

The Court rejected United Air Lines’ argument that the ACAA prevented Ms. Gilstrap from suing it. Ms. Gilstrap successfully argued that Congress did not intend to preclude disabled Americans from suing airlines when those airlines act in such a way that they injure, or cause further injuries, to disabled passengers.

 

 

 

“This decision,” according to Mr. Mark Meuser, who represented Ms. Gilstrap during the appeal, “is a great victory for disabled airline passengers. It sends a message to the airlines that, throughout the Ninth Circuit, they can be held accountable for their failure to treat such passengers in a manner consistent with the law.”

 

 

 

To see a copy of the Court’s order, please visit: http://cdn.ca9.uscourts.gov/datastore/opinions/2013/03/12/11-55271.pdf

 

 

 

For more information, please contact:

 

The Meuser Law Group

 

Mark P. Meuser, Esq.

 

(415) 577-2850

 

(925) 262-4656 – Facsimile

 

 

 

Iraq War is Over, Soldiers Will be Home For Christmas!

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Image via Wikipedia Last Soldiers from U.S. leave Iraq.

Families have mixed emotions watching the news these days, as they see many soldiers coming home from Iraq with the announcement that the war is over.  Yes, we are glad, but we all have mixed emotions about what will happen now?

Will Iraq remain free for its people?  Will Iran rush in and take over? Will the lives lost be worth it? Many young American and Iraq men, women and children died these many years, was it worth this tremendous toll?  It is too early to write those words.

We will have to wait a few more years and see whether Iraq can stay a free nation and keep its freedom for its people.

Our families who have lost fathers, sons, mothers, daughters, they are asking if the price paid was worth it?  The loss of a loved one is such a great price and one that has no cost to compare.

My heart is saddened to know that many families must go through the holidays without their loved ones, but we must also know that the Iraq people do not have a monster of a dictator ruling over them and torturing them as they did for many years.

Don’t Forget The Unemployed This Holiday Season!

Tory Johnson helps women and today in her uplifting email she stated ” nearly 25 percent of children in this country live in poverty. More than 14 million people are out of work more than 40 percent of whom have been unemployed for longer than 6 months.  There are nearly 9 million involuntary part-time workers who would prefer fulltime jobs.  And another million Americans aren’t counted in any of these stats because they’re too discouraged to continue their search. “

What does this mean for you and me?  We can help those who are unemployed by sending them job notices when we come across them. Writing them references when they ask us, and sending money to food banks, because that is where many unemployed people are surviving these days.

60 Minutes last night had a segment on homelessness in America and how many are living in shelters and in cars and trucks because of this recession. Doing without is a way of life for many homes.  Not having things is not as important as having food for dinner.  The 60 minutes segment showed that many families miss meals because they don’t have enough food to go around.

Giving to food pantry’s is the way to give back to help our neighbors who may be without. If you can help, please give to  your local pantry.  The need is greater now than ever.  Helping our friends who are out of work in whatever way you can will come back to you ten-fold.  Don’t do it because you want something to come back, just do it because it is the right thing to do!

A Hero From My Home Town: Bob Kalsu: Former Buffalo Bill &Vietnam Hero!

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Many of you will remember when I wrote about my home town of Del City, Oklahoma a few weeks ago and how we were playing the Remember When thread on Facebook.   One of our hometown heroes was Bob Kalsu, who I grew up with in my church, and  in my community of Del City, Ok.

I have attached a link to Sports Illustrated that is the story of  the first hero from the Vietnam War who also played in the NFL.  http://sportsillustrated.cnn.com/vault/article/magazine/MAG1023026/index.htm.

Many of us remember Bob and his kind spirit and we named the Del City High School Stadium after him.  He will always be a hero for many of us in Del City.

Beverly Hills Housewives Airs Season Two, Should They Have Scraped It?

If you watch the Housewives show, then you know that they edited it and showed the housewives getting together and saying that none of them had a clue that Taylor’s husband, Russel Armstrong was going to take his life.

Really? This is Bravo’s sensitivity for the suicide with these women saying they didn’t have a clue?  I don’t think this group would have a clue that half of America is out of work, not to mention that many go hungry because they don’t have enough money to buy food.

This show would have done better to cancel the entire season and show respect for the children of Russell.  These society women don’t seem to understand much at all.  They only care about themselves.  I am so glad I do not take any time watching this show.

Bravo may have given itself kudos for their sensitivity, but I don’t.  Show some real truth here and scrap the whole second season. Honor Russell and his family by not bringing up his shortcoming, what good will it do?  His children and his wife would like to remember him with the good memories, not the bad ones that might be portrayed on the show.

Sugar Drinks Are Not Your Friend – Obesity Up!

Just in case you didn’t know, Obesity is on the rise in our country and the world and many experts are now saying that it could be that can of soda in your hand.

Yes, it has more sugar than you might be aware.  ”Sugary drinks are the single largest source of calories in the American diet and account for half of all added sugars consumed,” according to an article entitle Money and Company in the Los Angeles Times, Consumer Confidential: Soda warning; free Chick-fil-A meals.

The American Heart Association in the same article is suggesting that Americans should only drink 3 cans of soda a week, that would be 450 calories per week just from 3 cans of soda.  I don’t know about you, but I can put those calories into something else besides soda.

What is most important is that we look at how our children are drinking these drinks because this is a major contributor to obesity which does result in type 2 diabetes.  Many schools are removing sugary drinks out of the drink containers in the school and I have noticed in Kaiser facilities in Los Angeles they have taken them out as well.

This is proactive and I think more needs to be done to keep our children safe from sugar in the diet.  Education is key to stopping the obesity epidemic.  Schools can help more with the parents and programs that teach better food preparation at home and at school will be the only way to solve this crisis.

I Believe She’s An Amazing Woman

The other day on Facebook, a highschool friend posted this video to honor one of our friends who had passed away, Margene Griffin, who had graduated from Del City High School, and went on to Central State University with me.  She joined Tri Sigma Sorority and convinced me to pledge and to join her on this path.

I should also add that Margene and I were in Senior Girl Scouts together and we did many special community service projects together.  Tri Sigma Sorority at our college had many Girl Scouts in it and we even sponsored a Brownie troop.

Margene graduated from Central State University after serving as President of Tri Sigma, with a degree in nursing.  She was married very soon after graduation and she and her husband began their journey around the world as missionary’s for a program that took them to many different countries.

I did not know that through this journey, Margene was battling an illness within her lower GI tract and she had been on liquids for many years.  I saw her at my 25th high school reunion and  she shared that she was waiting on a lower intestine transplant.  She did receive the transplant and did very well for several years.

Both of us were battling physical issues, mine was a physical disability and her’s was an internal issue.  She was smiling and strong just as she had always been.  Margene and stayed in touch through our Sorority for several years after and then she moved to Colorado and I moved to California.  I lost track of her.

I was on Classmates.com to try and find her but I couldn’t, so I contacted her brother, and discovered that she had passed on.  I felt terrible that we had lost track of each other.  Sometimes life gets in the way, and we lose one another.  I just urge you to stay in touch with those special people who touch your life in high school or college and let them know how much they mean to you before you lose that opportunity.

Margene and I did have that time, but I still feel that we could have had a little more.  Here is the Video that I dedicate to Margene who was an Amazing Woman.

Casey Anthony Must Serve Probation in Florida!

HLN is reporting this afternoon, that a three judge panel has upheld Judge Strickland’s early order and Judge Melvin Perry’s interpretation that Casey Anthony must serve a year of supervised probation in Orlando, Florida. She must report by Friday.

This is not what the Casey Anthony Defense team had argued and the Florida Attorney General had argued that she should serve the probation in the case going in front of the  5th District Court of Appeal.

It is not what the Defense team had expected, but it is what many  legal experts had expected.  Although many had speculated that the Defense might win on this point, it is not what the panel ordered.

Time will one tell what happens, but it is now clear, Casey Anthony will be coming back to Florida soon.

Children Being Abducted And Killed Throughout This Country!! Where Is the Protection??

Caylee Anthony was a precious little girl that has captured the hearts of America, but just this week, a three-year old little girl was abducted from in front of her home in Missouri and murdered.

Another child in Southern California was taken from her home by her father, and driven to Northern California. Police found both dead in the father’s car within a day and half. http://latimesblogs.latimes.com/lanow/2011/08/kidnapped-2-year-old-girl-father-found-dead-inside-suv.html

Little Caylee Anthony was a victim, but there are others everyday in our country and we must put our foot down and say enough. We all must take steps to protect our children.

My heart is saddened when I read that these innocents are the tools between a father and mother in a child custody issue and that a  child (or children) loses his/her life.  Let’s not allow another sexual predator an opportunity to grab a child and end another precious life.  In California,  a family was murdered  by a father who didn’t want to complete a divorce action, so he killed the children and the mother.

Sexual predators do not change their behavior.  The Jaycee Dugard case is teaching us more each day as the video tapes are released how this couple, who abducted her, would lure little girls into their van and video tape these children.  These people need to be locked away and  the key thrown away.

We must become united at protecting our children and take care of one another like we used to when I was a child.  Everyone on my block knew one another, and we helped one another when we needed help.

We must know who is out-of-place in our neighborhood and who belongs so we can spot those cars that might take a child.  When we see a father or a mother becoming emotionally unbalanced, we must reach out for help to protect the children.

Our children are our tomorrows.  They are the most precious commodity of our lives.  We should take every step to protect them and unite to make their lives secure.