Trailblazing The Path For Women’s Rights

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Many young women do not know the advances that have been made in the last 40 years by some courageous Trailblazers! In one year, I had the opportunity to meet three women who helped change the course of our history in the United States and several international organizations around the globe.

Just a few years ago I was the director of membership for the Los Angeles Rotary Club and in 2009  they were celebrating 100 years as a club. They are also known as LA5, they were the fifth Rotary club in the world. From this one club in Los Angeles many Rotary clubs started across California. 2009 was a life changing year for me.

LA5 chose Justice Sandra Day O’Connor as their  Person of the Century.  For this spectacular event clubs from across California were invited and  of course the special club to be invited was Durate Rotary Club, the club which challenged Rotary International by allowing three women to join their club.

At that time in the 1970′s Rotary was an all male organization, and the women had a separate organization that they could belong to, but it was like an auxiliary. Rotary International acted swiftly by telling the club they could not have women as members and they could not be part of Rotary International if they continued to have the three members.   The entire history of the case can be found here: http://www.rotaryfirst100.org/women/issues-legal/duarte/index.htm

The club said they were going to keep the members and sued Rotary International to keep their members.  They took the case all the way to the Supreme Court for a decision.

Helen Blanchard

Helen “Homer” Blanchard

Now in a little Toastmasters club on a Navy base in San Diego, a young woman was joining Toastmasters, which was also a male only organization. She worked for the Navy and the men in the club wanted her to join. They first tried with initials, but Toastmasters sent it back and said they had to have a full name.

Helen Blanchard, became “Homer” and the application went in and Toastmasters International was none the wiser. She was the first woman member of Toastmasters in the mid-70′s and yet no one really knew.

Back to the Rotary Case,  a Judicial precedent was set in 1987, when all nine Justices with one abstaining, the first woman justice, Sandra Day O’Conner, due to the fact that her husband was a Rotarian in Phoenix, sat on the sidelines on this case, decided against Rotary International and said they must admit women.

The doors of organizations were now open to women, all male clubs including Toastmasters International now had to admit women. Male private clubs, now had to allow women as members, and “Homer” Helen Blanchard quickly changed her name on her application and was the first Official Woman in Toastmasters International.  Helen wrote her story and it can be found on her website: www.helenblanchard.com

Moving up to 2009, the LA5 100 year party for Justice Sandra Day O’Conner, we had worked for over a year for this special day, over 400 people from across Los Angeles elite and Southern California came to meet this famous woman.  The first woman president of the Durate Rotary club, Sylvia Whitlock, came to meet Justice Sandra Day O’Conner. Madam Justice was a trail blazer as the first female Supreme Court Justice. She grew up on a ranch in Arizona and came from humble beginnings. When she told of the decision against Rotary that day, our room was filled with powerful women from throughout California, my only regret was that Helen Blanchard could not be there to meet one of the women who sat on the court that helped open the door for her and so many of us.

In November 2009, I had our District 52 Conference for Toastmasters International, which includes Los Angeles, and I invited Helen “Homer” Blanchard to be our featured speaker for the Conference. Helen had just published her book about her life  and becoming the first woman in Toastmasters. She also became the first woman International President.  That’s right she rose to the top of the international organization.

It is important to know the history of where we have come from, because we are losing Helen “Homer” Blanchard as I write this, her hours on this earth are short. Her impact however has been huge and I already miss one of my trail blazers who helped open the door to allow me to join Toastmasters and to the women who joined the Duarte Rotary Club who pushed to the Supreme Court to pave the way for more of us to join Rotary, Lions, Kiwanis and many more organizations that had been closed to women.

So long my friend, Helen, you brought us your charm, and your courage in adversity, you showed us that if you have a desire to go to the top, you can achieve. You battled the male chauvinism that existed in the organization when you joined and your strength and intelligence showed all of them that looking at skill and  the growth of the organization is what counts. I will miss your jokes and your smile, but most of all I will miss your encouragement.

 

Lindsey Lohan Turns Down Rehab, Wants to Be Public Spokesperson for Drunk Driving!

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Yes, that is right! Ms. Lohan turned down a deal with the Santa Monica prosecutors to not do Rehab, “I don’t have a problem”.  But she wants to be a public spokesperson for not driving and drinking. Get Real Ms. Lohan, you do have a problem and you are not someone who should be doing any type of publicity about not drinking and driving since you have done it many times and now are facing jail.

I have not commented on her craziness of late, but she needs help.  Do you hear me Ms. Lohan, you are losing your home that you and your Mom have in New York, your Los Angeles home was also taken away because you couldn’t pay the rent. You owe the IRS back taxes and the state of California.  Wake Up! Your drug use and drinking have gotten you here.  No one but you is responsible for lying to the police about driving. You did it.

Your terrible acting in Liz and Dick was done by you, no one else and you are to be held accountable for why you can not get a job in the Film Industry. Showing up late, not showing up, what do you expect? A Red Carpet? Forget it you are not eligible anymore.  You have lost that ticket because of your bad behavior. No one wants to work with you except the Porn Industry.

When someone has a problem drinking or doing drugs they need help. Ms. Lohan does need help, but she belongs in jail this time. No get out of jail card this time. You have lost all of your chances and you keep hurting others beside yourself.  Sober up in Jail, that is what anyone else would get and you deserve to be there this time.

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Girl Scouts Not Teaching Good Lessons About Recycling!

Teaching girls the lessons of a lifetime, Girl Scouts has been in our country 100 years started by Juliette Gordon Low in Savannah, GA.  Utilizing resources wisely is one of those guides they use to teach girls to take care of the earth.

What was one Council in the Inland Empire of California thinking when they bulldozed left-over cookies into a landfill?  This is not utilizing resources wisely.  As a lifelong Girl Scout I am appalled at this behavior and the fallout that has resulted to one little girl because she brought this to our attention.

This is not a hoax as some have stated on FB and twitter, this is a real life situation and one that needs to stop!!!!  I know how the sale runs, I directed the sale for a Girl Scout Council when I worked as professional staff.  I know what we did with left over cookies and we never put them in a landfill.

This is not a cookie company problem as some have hinted. This was the council who made the decision to put them into the landfill and now they are embarrassed and told the girl she could not contact anyone in her troop due to this scandal. What lesson is this council now teaching to this child? Don’t tell the truth, because you will be in trouble!

Shame on that council for hurting a child due to their mistake.  This is not what Girl Scouting teaches.  Councils are self regulating and have boards that make decisions and staff who know the right things to do. If I were on that board, I would investigate this and celebrate this child’s honesty in bringing this mistake to light.

This particular council did not do the right thing, but let’s not hurt all Girl Scout Councils for their mistake.  Many are operating correctly.  Girls Scouts USA needs to step in and send a team to investigate this. Making the girl, whistleblower, quit is not the solution.

Operation Gratitude in Van Nuys, CA ships many care packages to our troops over 600,000 and they would take any left-over cookies for our troops if they have not expired.  I have helped to pack these  and what goes in are messages from home and love from homemade hats and scarfs needed in the frigid cold.  Anything else like movies and Girl Scout cookies are always welcome from people who can supply a large quantity.

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this waste from this one council.  Not all Girl Scout Councils do this, this is an isolated incident and we must not link the whole organization with one council’s grievous error in judgement.

Here is another link to her story http://www.allparenting.com/my-life/articles/967219/fundraising-effort-with-the-girl-scouts-turns-into-a-battle.

In California, Oct. 16 is Steve Jobs Day

To honor the man who was one of our greatest inventor’s.  He created a corporation that helped many of us everyday with its products.

Occupy Wall Street needs to wake up and realize without great inventors and great spirit like Steve Jobs we would have no progress in our country and there would be no jobs for anyone!

The Role of Nurses in Natural Disasters & Pandemics Reviewed

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This morning, I want you to take a moment and check out this link about how nurses deal with the sick and injured in time of crisis.   http://wp.me/CCDa

As someone who was in Oklahoma City when the we had the bombing, nurses and doctors risked their lives to rush to the bombing site and treat victims.

No one stopped and thought about their benefits or whether their union would want them to rush there, they did it.  I don’t think that was on anyone’s mind.

The above article talks about a new movie dealing with a pandemic and how it states there were no nurses because they were on strike.

This does happen in the state of California and it happened just a few weeks ago, but for only 3 days and many of the facilities knew ahead of time and had replacements to cover for the short time period.

It is very much like Hollywood to paint everyone with a broad brush and I am sorry they did so in this movie, Contagion.  Every nurse I have ever met has been dedicated and committed to the care of their patient, and this does get overlooked in Hollywood.

Don;t believe everything in the movies, it is after only a movie!

 

Southern California Father Throws Son Off Tour Boat!

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Just when we thought bad parenting couldn’t get any worse, we had a father yesterday, tell his son to stop crying and after hitting him several times, according to witness, threw his 7 year-old-son off from the boat in busy Newport Harbor in Orange County, California.

This is a tour boat that takes people around the harbor so they can see mansions occupied and once occupied by celebrities like John”Duke” Wayne.

If the Duke had been alive yesterday, he would have jumped off his deck and whacked this dad, Sloane Briles, 35, of Irvine, California.  There would not have been any need for authorities, the Duke would have hit him once, and that would have been all she wrote.  What a shame when you need the Duke, he is watching from above.

This story was featured on one of the local TV news programs last night, and they actually caught up to the father, and he claimed that he and his son were “horsing around” .  He claimed he held his son off from the boat and his son jumped into the water.

According to witnesses and the 911 calls, that is not what happened, and they were very clear that the father was abusing his son on the boat by hitting him.  He then took him to the bow of the boat and threw him off.  In the busy harbor anyone could have hit the small child not to mention the tour boat could have hit him with the prop.

The authorities said three boats came to the rescue of the child and pulled him out after his father jumped in to save him.

The Orange County sheriff was called and their boat arrived and had to physically wrestle the father to the ground to subdue him to take him into custody.  Witnesses said he had been drinking and appeared intoxicated.

The child was released  to his mother along with his 6-year-old brother who was also on the boat.  The father and the mother are divorced.  The father had been in an argument with his girl friend on the boat when the 7-year-old started crying about the argument.

The father has been charged with felony child endangerment and resisting arrest, the Orange County Sheriff’s Office said. He was released Monday in lieu of a $100,000 bond.

I Believe She’s An Amazing Woman

The other day on Facebook, a highschool friend posted this video to honor one of our friends who had passed away, Margene Griffin, who had graduated from Del City High School, and went on to Central State University with me.  She joined Tri Sigma Sorority and convinced me to pledge and to join her on this path.

I should also add that Margene and I were in Senior Girl Scouts together and we did many special community service projects together.  Tri Sigma Sorority at our college had many Girl Scouts in it and we even sponsored a Brownie troop.

Margene graduated from Central State University after serving as President of Tri Sigma, with a degree in nursing.  She was married very soon after graduation and she and her husband began their journey around the world as missionary’s for a program that took them to many different countries.

I did not know that through this journey, Margene was battling an illness within her lower GI tract and she had been on liquids for many years.  I saw her at my 25th high school reunion and  she shared that she was waiting on a lower intestine transplant.  She did receive the transplant and did very well for several years.

Both of us were battling physical issues, mine was a physical disability and her’s was an internal issue.  She was smiling and strong just as she had always been.  Margene and stayed in touch through our Sorority for several years after and then she moved to Colorado and I moved to California.  I lost track of her.

I was on Classmates.com to try and find her but I couldn’t, so I contacted her brother, and discovered that she had passed on.  I felt terrible that we had lost track of each other.  Sometimes life gets in the way, and we lose one another.  I just urge you to stay in touch with those special people who touch your life in high school or college and let them know how much they mean to you before you lose that opportunity.

Margene and I did have that time, but I still feel that we could have had a little more.  Here is the Video that I dedicate to Margene who was an Amazing Woman.

Children Being Abducted And Killed Throughout This Country!! Where Is the Protection??

Caylee Anthony was a precious little girl that has captured the hearts of America, but just this week, a three-year old little girl was abducted from in front of her home in Missouri and murdered.

Another child in Southern California was taken from her home by her father, and driven to Northern California. Police found both dead in the father’s car within a day and half. http://latimesblogs.latimes.com/lanow/2011/08/kidnapped-2-year-old-girl-father-found-dead-inside-suv.html

Little Caylee Anthony was a victim, but there are others everyday in our country and we must put our foot down and say enough. We all must take steps to protect our children.

My heart is saddened when I read that these innocents are the tools between a father and mother in a child custody issue and that a  child (or children) loses his/her life.  Let’s not allow another sexual predator an opportunity to grab a child and end another precious life.  In California,  a family was murdered  by a father who didn’t want to complete a divorce action, so he killed the children and the mother.

Sexual predators do not change their behavior.  The Jaycee Dugard case is teaching us more each day as the video tapes are released how this couple, who abducted her, would lure little girls into their van and video tape these children.  These people need to be locked away and  the key thrown away.

We must become united at protecting our children and take care of one another like we used to when I was a child.  Everyone on my block knew one another, and we helped one another when we needed help.

We must know who is out-of-place in our neighborhood and who belongs so we can spot those cars that might take a child.  When we see a father or a mother becoming emotionally unbalanced, we must reach out for help to protect the children.

Our children are our tomorrows.  They are the most precious commodity of our lives.  We should take every step to protect them and unite to make their lives secure.

California Bounty Hunter May Also File Lawsuit Against Casey Anthony

Leonard Padilla  is seeking $200,000 to pay him back for bond, expenses during the 2008 search for Caylee Anthony only he is claiming that both Casey Anthony and Jose Baez mislead him during the search and bond that he extended for Casey.

All I can say is Leonard Padilla is going to have to get in line, because Casey Anthony filed a statement in Florida saying she was penniless and left the jail with $500. to her name from her jail account.  She is living somewhere in seclusion from the “kindness of volunteers” according to her attorneys.

“Not only did he mislead us, they conned us. And, he did a good job,” Padilla said to KCRA in Sacramento

Padilla said Anthony’s attorney accepted an offer by Padilla to fly to Florida and to search for Casey Anthony’s daughter in 2008. He contends that both Anthony and her attorney knew at that time that Caylee was dead.

“Jose Baez said during the trial’s opening statement and in his closing that they knew all along she was never lost,” said Padilla.

Read more: http://www.kcra.com/news/28585431/detail.html#ixzz1SZ94C8jU

 

 

 

Casey Anthony Defense is to Blame Family

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Yesterday during juror selection the defense for Casey Anthony let it slip to prospective jurors that they might have to decide if abuse had anything to do with someone’s actions in this case?  Oh right! 

Casey Anthony writes a letter last year that her brother and her father had molested her and that is now the reason she killed her daughter?

Give me a break, that is not going to win any breaks for killing an innocent 2-year-old child.  The child did not do anything to this mother.  The Grandmother, Cindy had offered many times to have the little girl live with her, and for Casey to live somewhere else.  But no, Casey had to do something to hurt the family like steal from her grandfather and her mother and her friends.

Casey is not to be believed and now she is making up this terrible lie about her father and brother who stood by her to cast doubt on someone else and save her own skin.  She is just full of it.  In Texas they call this “Bull Shit”.

Casey never told the truth in her entire life and now the defense is taking this terrible letter and using it to hurt the father and brother as their only defense strategy?  They should have taken a plea deal at the beginning of this case and saved the tax payers of the state of Florida time and money.  Casey Anthony is not the brightest bulb when it comes to thinking up ideas and neither is her attorney. 

The jury is going to see right through this stupid defense strategy and convict Casey but not before it destroys her father and her brother for accusations that are baseless.